Dear 18-19 Year Olds, Please stop building your lives around being chosen.
Originally published on Medium Dear 18–19 year old girls: please don’t build your life around being chosen. You’re not “too young to know better.” You’re young enough to be targeted — by romance, by manipulation, by loneliness, by the “good guy” who says the right things. And I’m writing this without moral panic, without shame, without the usual …