What is Female Squirting? What does it feel like? Where does it come from? Is it urine? Know everything you have ever questioned or doubted about female ejaculation or female squirting!
“Squirting has been getting a lot of attention in recent years. Accurate information and conversation about the sexual realities of female-assigned folks- whose bodies are still often subject to myth and mystery- is fantastic. That said, squirting is sometimes presented as something to “achieve” or an essential part of being sexually liberated. This creates a lot of unnecessary pressure.”
Kitty May, Director of Education and Community Outreach at Other Nature.
Female Squirting or Female Ejaculation is the involuntary expulsion of fluid – not exactly urine but a combination of urea, uric acid, and creatinine. Besides these chemical constituents, the expelled fluid contains PSA (prostate-specific antigen).
In men, PSA is produced by the prostate. But in women, prostate tissues in Skene’s glands are located at the lower end of the urethra- on the front wall of the vagina.
Squirting usually occurs from G-Spot Stimulation or G-spot and Clitoral dual stimulation. And if Skene’s gland is stimulated, you will most likely squirt. This is because Skene’s glands and the G-Spot are close to each other.
For most people with a vulva, stimulation of the G-Spot brings intense sexual pleasure, often triggering the secretions from the Skene’s glands, which come out as female squirting/ female ejaculation.
Sex Educator Samantha Evans says, “The varying levels of development and size of these glands between individuals may partially explain why some women experience dramatic ejaculations while others don’t.”
Can everybody do it? Do all the people with vulvas squirt? That’s one of the common questions asked about female squirting. The studies and research on squirting have shown conflicting results.
Certified Sex coach Gigi Engle, the author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life, says that it appears that anybody with a vulva has the “mechanics” required to squirt. According to the International Society for Sexual Medicine, estimates suggest that between 10 and 50 per cent of women ejaculate.
Some women or people with a vulva may experience squirting during the orgasm, and some may experience it without or before the orgasm. The study concluded that all females ejaculate, but some may not expel the fluid as it returns to the bladder, which then passes it during urination.
For every person with a vulva, the experience of squirting varies. According to Dr Lauren Streicher, an Associate Clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Feinberg School of Medicine, there is no science to prove that people who squirt have better orgasms than the ones who do not squirt. A normal orgasm can be as good with or without squirting.
“Feels like… when you repeatedly stimulate your g-spot for a while your vagina starts to contract as you are about to orgasm and then all of a sudden there is a warm gushy splashing and you look down and you’ve made a puddle. The first time it happened for me I had been masturbating only my G-spot for about an hour and I thought I felt something, so I sat on the floor in front of a mirror and watched myself do it again. I ended up laughing a lot at my facial expression when it happened as it was not so much an orgasmic “Oh” face but an “Oh fuck it won’t stop squirting so high I did not anticipate this” face.” – Olves
“For me it feels like a lot of pressure building up inside me. The stimulation needs to be really intense for me to squirt, so it feels really really good as he’s putting pressure on my a-spot and g-spot. In terms of when the fluid is actually released, sometimes I feel a small release in that pressure, other times I don’t feel anything at all and the only way I know I’m squirting is to look down and see it spraying out or for my partner to tell me it’s happening. Super hot to watch, especially seeing just how much he absolutely LOVES it.” – Maxxters
“For me, it feels kinda like the pressure of having to go pee before it happens, when it happens, it gushes out and feel super amazing. The first time it happened, I honestly did not know what happened, and thought I did pee. My husband was the one who had to explain it.” – MFDirtyThrowaway
“I can squirt by either clit or g-spot stimulation. I started doing it in my mid-20’s and just thought I was incredibly wet, it didn’t occur to me that I was squirting until I actually felt it jet out of me the first time. My boyfriend unlocked something inside of me the first time he fingered me, I had never produced a wet spot that big before. We jokingly refer to it as “the lake Erie incident” and have since invested in a mat to protect the bed due to the amt of fluid he can cause me to produce. He says he loves it, can’t get enough of it, and goes wild when he sees and feels it happening, which makes me feel like a sex goddess. I felt like the sexiest thing alive when I sat on his face for the first time and he sat up afterwards just dripping from me, grinning ear to ear. The sensation is different from peeing, there is a deep pressure that builds up and it feels differently than urine when it comes out. Sometimes it pours out, other times it squirts out, and then there are other times where he pulls out of me and THEN it comes gushing out. I also have times where it doesn’t happen at all. It’s nothing to be scared of and I have no tips on how to make it happen other than stay hydrated, relax, and go with the flow. :)”- RiotGrrL319
It may appear that female squirting is similar to an orgasm; sometimes, it is not. Sometimes, they are sexually aroused enough that penetration alone makes them squirt. It is certainly different in every person’s case, whether it’s mere squirting or squirting with orgasm.
You can try methods to make your partner squirt. Take a further look!
As mentioned above, squirting is most likely to happen upon the person’s G-Spot being stimulated.
Try to squirt, relax, find your G-Spot, and stimulate it.
The G-spot is an erogenous zone located 5-8 cm inside the vagina. The Skene’s glands that secrete the ‘ejaculate’ are roughly in the same place as the G-spot. So when the G-spot is stimulated in a ‘come hitherto’ motion, the Skene’s glands are massaged along with it, producing the ‘ejaculate’.
And now, stimulate it gently and slowly. Take your time, and explore. Of course, it may happen that you won’t squirt, and that’s completely okay!
You can also use a lot of lubricants as it will reduce the risk of any soreness or injury. Stimulate the G-Spot either with a finger or a G-Spot Vibrator. They have the perfect angles, making reaching the G-Spot for stimulation easier.
As the G-Spot is stimulated, the arousal increases. The erectile tissue fills with blood, the G-spot and the labia become larger, and the squirting happens.
Female Squirting or Female Ejaculation isn’t bad or wrong. People with vulva may squirt, or they may not. If you squirt, it’s normal. If you don’t squirt, then also it’s perfectly fine. There’s nothing dirty or unattractive about it. So, if you are too worried about it being a sexual health issue or a problem in general, don’t be.
