What is Foreplay?
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Foreplay is any sexual activity before sexual intercourse; something that may or may not lead to intercourse. It, for everyone, means different and affects everyone differently. That may include the following:

  1. Kissing: As you mean it. Hold eye contact with your partner, press your body against them, pull them into you, squeeze their sides, and play your lips on theirs.
  1. Touching: Training your finger-tips on their sensitive spots/ touching their thigh/ light touches on their chest/ gently rubbing your thumb on their skin/ stroking their nape/ playing with their earlobe/ pinching their nipples/ caressing them all over their body/ stroking their penis/ stroking their clitoris.
  1. Nibbling: Nipping on your partner’s earlobe/ biting their lip/ nibbling their nipples.
  1. Squeezing: Gently digging your fingers in your partner’s ass/ squeezing their sides/ pressing their breasts.
  1. Dirty Talks: if you are away from your partner then dirty talks either on the phone call, video call, or texts do the trick. Leaving a note saying ‘I can’t wait for us to (Fill in the blank)’ or making an urgent phone call and telling them ‘I want to see you (Fill again) tonight’. Dirty talks always set the mood almost instantly.
  1. Role-plays: you and your partner pretending to be strangers and meeting for the first time/ your partner dressed as a hot doctor and you, a sexy nurse/ you pretending to be a hot teacher and your partner, a colleague, or the principal, or the student. Really, anything that excites you. And etcetera.

All the above-mentioned activities fall under the category of foreplay. Foreplay, with consent, done right can entail mind-blowing and really hot sexual intercourse. Before we know more about foreplay and the awesome ways to do it right, let us understand why Foreplay is important.

Why Foreplay is Important

To set the mood. If you and your partner need to spice up things in bed, in the relationship, or even generally, in life, foreplay is one of the best ways (the only way) to do it. The answer to the question- why foreplay is important can always be found in what follows, that is, a great, steamy, mind-boggling sex. Or not. Because foreplay alone has the capacity to get your orgasm if of course done right.

However, I am going to give some factual and scientific information (not that you need it) for you to know what foreplay does to the brain and the body.

Scientific Reasons of Why Foreplay is Important

  • Foreplay triggers the release of ‘happy hormones’ like oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin. These hormones help lower cortisol (stress hormone) and increase the level of affection, intimacy, and elation.
  • So when you are turned on, certain parts of your brain get activated which include the part associated with your emotions. the amygdala, the part associated with memory management i.e. hippocampus, and the part associated with the processing of your physical feelings i.e. anterior insula. The reason behind all this scientific information is that when we are turned on, we instantly feel bonded with our partner. Which plays a significant role in any sexual activity that may be to follow.
  • Besides all of that medical stuff, foreplay causes the genitals, i.e the penis, the clitoris, the labia to swell.
  • Vagina, clitoris, and nipples become sensitive to sexual stimulation (obviously)
  • Lubricating of the vagina, which makes the penile penetration enjoyable, and sex all the more pleasurable.

So, basically, foreplay sexually arouses you. And sexual arousal makes the sexual activity fun, pleasurable, and unrestrained.

Remember, foreplay does not always lead to sex. Sometimes, foreplay alone does the trick; is enough for the sexual release

In terms of sex, foreplay is defined only as erotic arousal paving the way for a sexual event.

Furthermore, the sexual event may not always be sex. And there is nothing wrong with it. Because foreplay, when done right, is perfectly capable of you or your partner achieving the orgasm.

In the case of people with vaginas, only penile penetration is not enough for them to reach sexual release. And without nice foreplay, the intercourse does not always satiate them.

All of it does not claim that sexual intercourse is bad without foreplay!  

If you and your partner want to jump right into it, why not! Sometimes, all it takes is a ‘Let’s have sex tonight’ and the mood is set. Foreplay does not necessarily have to be there if you both are in the heat of the moment and want to just do it! 

How to Set Mood for Foreplay

We understand that sometimes, even foreplay requires a great deal of mood-setting, the right atmosphere, the nice setting, and dim lights, and whatnot. Here are some tips on how you can set the mood for foreplay:

Make Out:

Old, classic, and all-time favourite way to set the mood is a hot steamy make out with your partner. Grab their waist, pull them into you, hold the eye contact, press them against the wall, and start making out!

Sexy Talking:

According to Dr Sadie Allison, PhD and the author of Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris “Simply talking with a lover in a loving, sexy way can cause a man to become erect, and a woman to become moist.” So, try that! Tell her you can’t wait to see her naked tonight. Tell him to ravish you like there’s no tomorrow.

Striptease:

There’s no need for a pole, or for you to know the dance moves, just pull him/her in the room, dim the lights, put some music on, hold the eye contact bold and confident, and begin. Take off your layers swaying that delicious ass, and I guess you know the rest! 

Erotic Dance:

Bodies pressed against each other, hands on their ass, hot breaths tingling on each other’s nape, or ears, or cheeks, and the sexy sways and swirls are enough to get yourselves sparked up.

Masturbating in front of them:

Undressing and touching yourself, and working your way around seducing your partner is also one of the best ways of setting the mood for foreplay. Having them watch your hands meeting your most intimate parts may be a huge turn-on for many! Don’t feel shy, give it a try!

Winding Up! 

The road to sex i.e. foreplay is an art. If and when done right, foreplay is fairly sufficient to make you and your partner cum within minutes. Foreplay spices up the sexual life, the relationship, and life, in general. So the next time you meet your lover or your partner, don’t forget to delve into foreplay and smoothen the path for what’s to come ahead!

 

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